Bad Habits

The one thing is to accept people are different, like different things, some good, some bad, however, manners are manners - WHY ARE SMOKERS SUCH PIGS? Time and time I see someone toss their butts out the window of their car or while walking, even see then open the car door at a red light and empty their ash trays? Holy crap, when did this become acceptable and why? I don't get it... you can't spit on the side walk, throw trash, then why does this terrible habit get special privileges...
The second bad habit is not really a habit I just want to comment on it...I am dog owner, actually have 3, they all poop. I go to the dollar store and get the small bags to collect their messes at the park and during walks... my question is ' WHY DO PEOPLE GO TO THE TROUBLE OF COLLECTING THE POOP IN A BAG AND THEN TOSS THE BAG ON THE STREET OR LEAVE IT ON THE GRASS? This stuff makes me crazy.

Crazy work

Had lunch with an ex- coworker, why is there so much dysfunction going around. People are telling tall tales, making up junk, creating dramatic situations that never happened at all! Although it is hard to let the past go, sometimes it is for the best and most healthy thing for you... toxic people who pretend to be superior need to be removed from sucking the life and soul out of you. As far as I am concerned go riddens, have a nice day!

Crazy friends

Friends are very important but what happens when one goes nuts? I had this super close friend, she said I was her adopted sister, that close. We were not a 'couple', just good friends for 16 1/2 years, then out of the blue, apparently I said something wrong, then she sends this dumb email like back in high school, telling me never to email or call again. WTF is that all about?
Also stating that she was a better friend than I... ok, now I'm really annoyed... I lent her 14k for a new car, let her stay at my house for one year rent free, and I got here a job - doesn't that count for something?? I have had some financial woes lately, she claims I used that to be on edge; well, how come everyone is allowed to be moody once in awhile but me? If she was such a great friend and I have been crossing boundaries, then shouldn't she tell me, accuse me, have an intervention, something, but noooo, she cuts me off even of facebook, good grief. I am not 17 anymore, this stuff drives me crazy!